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            BlueCollarDaughter
 raised to profess social justice and faith

the miraculous dozen

06/16/2011

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our daily sunlight 'butterflly'
Lately I have taken to using the expression, "I am so behind I can see the back of my head." Of course, depending on the company and my general state of frustration, the language of that sentiment may be slightly altered,* but you get the general idea.  I have a serious case of overwork complicated by medical drag-ass (note: that may not be the technical dianosis--but basically I exist in a constant state of jet-lag, even though my last overseas flight was in the late 80s). The boys and I sing One Day at a Time, Sweet Jesus a lot. I feel my calendar judges me.

Long story short, expect delays.

One thing that I have been keeping up with well is the lads' "miracle journal." This is a notebook we have decided to start for a summer vacation project, and it gives a soft landing to the end of the day for Toe and Roo. At bedtime we cuddle on the couch and they each tell me one thing from the day that they feel was a miracle. Two little entries per night, Mon-Saturday (because Sunday is one big miracle, it would be too hard to choose on that day), for a weekly dozen moments of awe at God's good gifts.

Most miracles are pretty small, but big in the boys' eyes, just as it should be. Entries include things like our daily sunshine "butterfly" which mysteriously visits our ceiling in the southwest corner of the house every evening at 6:30--for the life of us we can't figure out what is refracting its shape through sun-filled window, but that's how miracles sometimes are: inexplicable.

Other "miracles" from the minds of Toe and Roo:
"Ants"
"The Dollar Store"
"How the grape juice turned into popsicles"
"DVD players"
"free tickets to Pump-it-Up!"
"blankets"
"my cough is gone"
"Uncle Jimbo"
"how popcorn works"
"rocks"
"hugs"
"Christmas"
"dog friends"
"the green outside"
"messages from Reebs"
"the color pink"
"breakfast"
"that oceans are big"
"different colors of skin"
"vacations"

Today I will add my own entry, which is final approval for a very, very large grant to finance the implementation of an autism therapy plan of my own design for Tovi.  The grant will not be in place until sometime in late July, but will finally allow for such things as equine and nature therapy (to alleviate ASD and NDD symptoms), home modifications such as new locking mechanisms for doors and windows, an adaptive bicycle, sensory integration equipment (special lighting and furnishings to decrease harsh sensory input),  an autism serivce dog (though not this year), electronic tracking services for Toe, and an iPad with communications apps such as iCommunicate and Tom the Talking Cat. Also there will be paid ABA therapy implemented by both Hub and me, and many other things as they come up in toe's list of developmentl needs.  Toe has had the possiblility of benefitting from all these things for years now, but no access to them, and so I am very grateful that in this regard God finally said, "yes."

Hope your day is miraculous too!

*despite my frequent refernces to whore, I do still try to keep the language of this blog somewhat  "family-friendly"
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Our Autism Odyssey: teacher BFFs

06/12/2011

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This coming Tuesday is the last day of school for both lads. It's especially bittersweet this year because Roo will be spending his final pre-K year (starting in September) at the World Cultures elementary magnet school, leaving our lovely little Wheelock School and our fair Miss Claire behind; on top of that, next Fall Toe will have a new first grade teacher as his beloved Ms. Tanya heads North for new adventures. We are happy, we are sad, we are movin' on.

If your kids had good teachers this year (which I will wager 99.9% of you will have to answer "yes"), don't forget to thank them. And don't forget to thank the bus drivers too--they busted their humps all year to take your precious cargo safely through rush hour traffic and bad weather and usually get the short end of the stick in thank yous.  And then there are the bus aides on the little kiddo busses. And the teaching assistants, the school nurse, the janitors, the school secretary who never judges you for calling too much or being late with all that damn paperwork, the lunchroom staff, the principal.  In Toe's case there are also a whole host of other speacialists and therapeutic professionals.

Dang, it really does take a village.  Appreciate the villagers for all they've done! Throw the villagers a parade if you can, or at least write a thoughtful note.

Claire-E-Claire and Tanya, you will always have a special place in our hearts!  Look for Tovi and Ruby-Roo to be harassing you with their affections for a long, long time to come!
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the road to roots

06/06/2011

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My people are gathering. They are coming this Thursday and together we will be plotting the revolution--and drinking some beers.

The hard world has many names for these lovely ground-breakers in social justice and Democratic activism: pinko-commies, bleeding hearts, Lame-o-crats, Nanny State Makers, Free-Thinkers, Tree-Huggers, Clintonites, Dirty Hippies, LibTards, Obama Mommas, College Pukes, Obamabots, Moore-Ons, Socialist Do-Gooders, The Party of Hug, Welfare Queens, Hollywood Progressives, LeftyLous, Dumb-o-crats. And those are just the slams without the swears.

Netroots Nation isn't just any conference, though. It's full of the hardcore, folks who don't mind standing up in a breakout session and asking how we can do more for whores, for example (not to name any names).

We strive to be the people of inclusion. Our parents taught us to share and, danggit, we share--maybe to a fault. Okay, we overshare, but only for the betterment of the human condition.  We blog, we report, support and strategize-- we network and tweet, we rally and march, we strike and boycott and organize and undermine and infiltrate. We care and encourage and speak out and door knock. All and each to the best of our ability. No one is asked to do more than that at our party.

We work to build up, not tear down. And in case you haven't noticed, this last one--yeah, it's in the Bible. And it's pretty big on God's agenda. Truth is too, and there's plenty of that.

So, this week, thanks to the generous help of an employer and fan, I will be gathering by the river with my kind. Bloggers, authors, mothers, labor and health rights activists, teachers, politicos, friends of the disabled, protectors of children and veterans, supporters of animal welfare, guardians of the environment and civil liberty and human rights and free speech. Women of integrity, men of action, God's own social justice army. We make for one badass tent revival.

So, say a little prayer that the boy's autism will be in check, that brain-boiling hot weather will not prohibit my ability to travel outside my cryobubble, and that the medical impediments that are plaguing me don't shut down the party of yes.

And wish us luck. This world really needs a revolution.


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hitched! (episode 14)

06/06/2011

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There we are, convicts of love. As of today, Hub and I have completed serving the second of 10 consecutive 7-year terms of marriage.  14 deployments to the tour of duty in a theatre of battle that never ends.  Nigh on a decade and a half of running that two-legged sack race in balls and chains.  You get the picture.

Since 14 isn't what you would consider a big benchmark number in anniversaries (not like 1 or 25 or "until the kids go away to college"), there will be no big hoopla this year.  Although for one of Hub's gifts I did teach Toe how to sing You Give Love A Bad Name, and for mine Hub managed to draw little skulls and crossbones with edible ink on my daily meds.  There's also a paper cut-out of a tombstone with the words "OUR YOUTH" and "RIP" on it, taped to the bathroom mirror.  I'm not sure who was responsible for that.  At our age, we both sleepwalk now so it could have been either of us.

Well, off I go now, to leave Hub's card in the bathroom for him to find when he wakes up.  It is, after all, his favorite place to read.
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Roo's start to summer in the 651

06/05/2011

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one of our fave jungle gyms in the concrete jungle
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Wheelock School picnic and our last hurrah with fair Miss Claire (now Mrs.)
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shades a la Elton
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Hippo Crocs with no socks
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mo'skeeter bites
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major medical

06/02/2011

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Hub has a new "doctor" as a result of his new "bargain" health insurance.  We'll call her "Dr. Mindy."  She graduated med school...TBD.

A loosely transcripted excerpt from Hub's introductory meeting with Dr. Mindy at his new clinic (the curiously-named "bargain" primary care center: "Clinic for the Elderly and...Some Adults"):

Dr. Mindy:  Mister...(squints at file)...Sk...Sk..."Skouse"?

Hub:  (Sighs, checks own pulse).

Dr. Mindy: Let's see here...(squints at file)...um, do you take drugs?

Hub:  No. (begins building a LEGO model of a military assault vehicle in his mind).

Dr. Mindy:  So no drugs? None at all? (twirls pink Hello, Kitty! pen, tucks it behind ear).

Hub:  No. "None at all" (makes bunny-eared air quotes). My only vices are an occasional beer and sugared soda.

Dr. Mindy: (eyes widen) Oh, really?  And how many "beers" and "sugary sodas" (attempts bunny ears--does it wrong)...would you say you drink in a day, Mister...Sk...Sk...

Hub: (interrupts) --As many as it takes, Doctor...Doctor...(squints at name tag)...Mindy. Oh, sorry, I mean "Resident Mindy."

Hub reports that while he is both fine with having a female "sorta" doctor and being called "Skouse," he will be looking for an internist whose interests go beyond illicit drug use and how to keep someone "comfortable" until death.

Next.
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Baby Seltz!

06/01/2011

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Henley Cate Seltz
Congratulations to Megan and Jake (and new big sister Nori, too!) on the arrival of your beautiful girl!  The more Seltzes in the world, the better!  Love and prayers for you and your miracle baby...
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beyond this point there be dragons...and other slithery things

06/01/2011

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Jello: another texturally distasteful summer love of Roo's
It's June, and I hear a collective sigh heaving itself across the land; parents everywhere are regarding the big red dead-end "X" on the calendar which marks the last day of school. 

Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Actually, Toe will be taking 5 weeks of half-day enrichment programs from St. Paul Public Schools, though I am not sure how I will tolerate him being any more enriched.  In 9 months my kindergartener (who, BTW, is perpetually dissatisfied with any enrichment activiity I may come up with) has gone from reading at the first grade to third-grade level, and by the end of the summer may be indeed be editing this blog (or maybe starting his own blog, sporting a thoughtful mustache and getting his own pied-à-terre where he can "focus" on his own "work" without the juvenile distractions of Mommy).  I was planning on teaching him how to play Swannee River by blowing on a blade of switchgrass, but that's just me.

Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Roo will be doing a day camp in creepy-crawlies (his favorite new thing to make me scream) called "Bugnation." Insects and slithery varmits are one of my most hatiest things about summer, and Roo's most beloved, so we are at odds. In this case it is best to send a child away to explore such distasteful interests, as one might send an emerging young Republican off to Camp GOP, etc.

And while this and other structured activities may seem like a lot, any parent knows that it is a mere drop in the vast, cavernous bucket of time which is the American agro-summer. Here are some other development-directed "funtivities" we have slated for Summer Vacay 2011:

1.  Mommy School: Unlike most public options, Mommy School is year-round and has no end. You will never graduate, and there is no possibility of "skipping."
2. Daddy Therapy: This one is actually administered for Daddy, not by daddy, and involves, tickling, bouncing on Hub's tummy (not me, the boys), silly performances of all sorts, spontaneous LEGO floor parties, poking fun at his pastiness at beaches and the roasting of red meat in the back yard. Daddy has had a hard year, and he is tops on our "to-do" list of compassionate projects.
3. Greening: As much color, fresh air, nature and silence as we can possibly pack into our disability-limited but hard-earned free time.
4.  Popsicles, watermelon, berrypicking, backyard tenting, bonfires, star-gazing, Tante parties, Uncle Poopy stories, chipmunk chasing, Farmer's marketing, flip-flopping and guerilla gardening.
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